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- ABOUT THE GARDEN OF FORGIVENESS
- The Garden of Forgiveness
is an initiative of Sacred City, Inc., an educational non-profit which seeks to
teach about forgiveness as a strategy for both personal healing and wellness,
as well as conflict transformation and peacemaking.
By creating a
global network of Gardens of Forgiveness, we hope to offer venues around the world
where individuals and communities can reflect on the hurts and horrors that befall
us as human beings, and then choose to make the world a better place by releasing
anger and grievances and not reciprocating violence with violence.
Our
work is a continuation of the multi-faith effort to respond with dignity to the
attacks on 9/11. While the attacks on 9/11 demonstrate what can happen when rage,
religious passion and cruelty mix, Gardens of Forgiveness will offer permanent
and poignant reminders that there are always alternatives to violence.
We
understand forgiveness to mean the ability to release resentment and hostility
after a period of mourning and grief. We understand that forgiveness never condones
violence nor is it a substitute for the search for justice, nor does it demand
reconciliation with those who have injured us. We understand that each of us struggles
to know what to do when cruelty is imposed upon us. There is no easy answer.
And
yet, without providing spaces to sit in peace and contemplate the horrors of unmerited
violence and the possibility of offering forgiveness, we are concerned that revenge
and retribution will dominate the conversation. Forgiveness is one of the steps
toward healing that will lead to a peaceful future. Forgiveness is a means through
which we create the future-a future free of repaying violence for violence and
pursuing the desire for revenge. We want to heal the past and create the future-one
Garden of Forgiveness at a time.
The first Garden of Forgiveness is
being created in Beirut, Lebanon where over 100,00 people were killed during their
civil war. The courageous spirit of the Lebanese people inspires us in our endeavor.
In the work of forgiveness, we acknowledge that WHEN ONE SUFFERS VIOLENCE, WE
ARE ALL DIMINISHED. It is the Zulu concept of "Ubuntu": "I am because
we are."
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- OUR PROJECTS & GOALS
The Garden of Forgiveness
will extend the work and healing of forgiveness
by:
- * Creating and promoting the Global Gardens
of Forgiveness Network ©. We would like for
there to be a Garden of Forgiveness in every community
around the world and we are currently developing
plans for supporting local communities in this
endeavor. In the next twelve months, our goal
is to plant four Gardens of Forgiveness and do
the necessary research and development for their
support. In our Africa Initiative, we are in conversation
with partners in Durban, Soweto, Uganda and Liberia
exploring the feasibility of planting and supporting
Gardens of Forgiveness in these local communities.
- * Developing educational initiatives on the
healing power of forgiveness. We are developing
curricula for secondary schools nationally, based
on our pilot program with Saint Hilda's and Saint
Hugh's School in New York City in the academic
year 2005-2006. We are also exploring a "Peace
through Forgiveness Leadership Summit" for
high school students from the metropolitan New
York region. For adults, we will develop a six
lesson curriculum for forgiveness circle groups,
accompanied by a leader's guide, to be distributed
internationally.
- * Building partnerships with colleges, universities,
and local communities. We are organizing symposia
on forgiveness as a peacemaking strategy for creating
the future and healing the past. We are planning
four symposia in the next year, based on our successful
events at Vassar College and the Institute of
Noetic Sciences.
- * Raising awareness about forgiveness through
special events. These events include the International
Day of Forgiveness, on which "Heroes of Forgiveness"
are acknowledged. In 2007 we will promote and
observe this day in New York City, and encourage
our partners in other communities to do the same.
- * Offering a multi-phasic pastoral and educational
outreach for six months to the wounded 9/11 community.
We will reach out to these heroes and offer counseling
and support as we help survivors to consider forgiveness
as the natural culmination of the grief process.
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- OUR PLANS FOR THE FUTURE
- * Continuing to create
and promote the Global Gardens of Forgiveness Network ©. We will work to establish
Gardens of Forgiveness across the country and around the world, including Sri
Lanka, Soweto, and Belfast.
- * Developing additional educational and
programmatic initiatives for our high school, college, and adult partners on forgiveness
as a peacemaking strategy for creating the future and healing the past. We will
offer workshops and dialogues to communities, empowering them with the necessary
tools to let go of unresolved grievances and anger and emrace greater peace and
joy in their lives.
- * Observing the International Day of Forgiveness
in New York each year.
- REV. LYNDON HARRIS
- The Reverend Lyndon F. Harris
was the priest in charge of the relief ministries at Ground Zero offered through
Saint Paul’s Chapel after the terrorist attacks of September 11, 2001. Father
Harris joined the staff of Trinity Church/ Saint Paul’s Chapel in April
2001 in order to develop an alternative urban worship program at Saint Paul’s.
However, from September 15, 2001 to June 2, 2002, Saint Paul’s Chapel was
converted into a multi-faith relief center for the rescue and relief workers,
and victim’s family members, at the World Trade Center site. Saint Paul’s
offered food, massage therapy, grief counseling, and chiropractic and podiatric
care around the clock. By the end of the operation, over one half million meals
were served.
Harris has traveled the country speaking to churches,
civic groups and academic institutions about the transformative experiences of
Saint Paul’s Chapel and the wider community’s response to 9/11. Father
Harris has appeared on many news programs including CBS News, CBS Sunday Morning,
ABC News, NBC News, CNN, NPR, The History Channel, NY1 (where Harris and the volunteers
were twice selected as “New Yorkers of the Week”). Many international
news outlets also featured his work at Saint Paul’s, including the BBC and
German TV (ARD). Harris has been written about in The New York Times, The Wall
Street Journal, The New York Daily News, The New York Post, The Washington Post,
The Boston Herald, The Christian Science Sentinel, and others, including mention
on A Prairie Home Companion. Harris is the author of the forthcoming book entitled
The Little Chapel That Stood: A Story of Healing and Hope. Harris was recently
selected for membership in the Faith and Order Commission of the National Council
of Churches, USA.
Harris is Executive Director and Co-chair of the Garden
of Forgiveness with Dr. Frederic Luskin.
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- DR. FRED LUSKIN
- Frederic Luskin, Ph.D. is Co-founder
and Director of the Stanford University Forgiveness Projects. Recently, Dr. Luskin's
and other's research has confirmed forgiveness' virtues in the promotion of psychological,
relationship and physical health. Forgiveness has been shown to reduce anger,
blood pressure, hurt, depression and stress and lead to greater feelings of physical
vitality, optimism, hope, compassion and self confidence.
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In the
Forgive for Good workshop and class series Dr. Luskin presents the forgiveness
training methodology that has been validated through his eight successful studies.
His work combines lecture with a hands-on approach to the ancient tradition of
forgiveness. Participants explore forgiveness with the goal of reducing hurt and
helplessness, letting go of anger and increasing confidence and hope as they learn
how to release unwanted hurts and grudges. In class practice may include guided
imagery, journal writing and discussion all presented in a safe and nurturing
environment.
Dr. Luskin holds a Ph.D. in Counseling and Health Psychology
from Stanford University. He is the Co-Director of the Stanford-Northern Ireland
HOPE Project, an ongoing series of workshops and research projects that investigate
the effectiveness of his forgiveness methods on the victims of political violence.
He currently works as a Senior Fellow at the Stanford Center on Conflict and Negotiation
and is the author of the best selling Forgive for Good: A Proven Prescription
for Health and Happiness (Harper San Francisco, 2003).
Dr. Luskin
presents lectures, workshops, seminars and trainings throughout the United States
on the importance, health benefits and training of forgiveness. He offers classes
and presentations that range from one hour to five weeks.
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